Goodbye. Such an easy word to say, but a word filled with so much pain, sorrow, grief, hopelessness. And a word filled with love, memories, and a sense of knowing.
And so I say ‘goodbye’ to my friend, my work partner, Lara.
Goodbye to my colleague, and my teacher, who pushed me to face myself…to slow down, to always learn and grow as a therapist. Who believed that if we can make someone's life better today, let’s do that.
Goodbye to my friend, who supported me through so much, who taught me to be honest with myself, to laugh out loud, to accept whatever came my way with Grace. Who believed in the importance of being present & grounded, that we are always ok in the present moment when we don’t focus too much on the past or future.
Goodbye to a community leader who did not stop, not ever, to teach, to engage, and to guide. And who had unwavering faith. Who believed that, with self awareness and growth, our communities could parent better, educate better and live better with a greater sense of peace of mind and understanding.
Goodbye to my co-group facilitator, who believed so much in the power of groups, group support, & shared learning. It was an honour facilitating groups with you.
Goodbye to an amazing therapist, whose wisdom changed so many lives, and will continue to do so when they hear her voice in their heads. Who believed that everyone of us has everything we need to deal with whatever comes our way when we access our inner wisdom and trust ourselves.
Goodbye to a spectacular mom & wife, who fought so fiercely to live for her children and husband, and who gave them the strength that they will now need. Who believed in laughing with her kids, staying level headed and keeping things uncomplicated. And most of all finding the humour and lightheartedness in every situation. Life lessons that will carry her children.
Goodbye to my co-director and work partner, who, together with my amazing colleague & friend, Maria, we were able to build and grow an incredible organisation with our bare hands. Who believed in us, our vision, and that anything is possible if you’re willing to put in the work. We will carry on.
Goodbye Lara. To say this one word is unimaginable, the loss is inconceivable. The gap too large to fill. But I will belly laugh, I will be real, I will stand still and press pause before making a decision. I will remember that we are all doing the best we can, and love everyone for just that. I will own my story, I will drive slower, and I will remember that in the end, whatever we do, Hashem runs the world , and we can rest peacefully in that knowledge.
Goodbye La. I love you and will miss you every day.